What you'll learn from this episode:
How the modern romantic expectation of perfection from our intimate relationships often fails us, and what we might learn from examining what love meant to our ancestors (even if—especially if—it introduces challenges into the dynamic).
We share our feelings on monogamy and marriage as a contract we enter for the rest of our lives (something most of us would never agree to do with careers, hobbies, and other pursuits), and how we might find room to adapt within its structure.
When we're not in a relationship, it's common to pine for one. When we're in a relationship, we often envy our single friends who get to play the field. How do we find a way to be satisfied without resorting to this "the grass is always greener on the other side" attitude—whether it's with relationships or other situations in which we find ourselves?
How Light has found the motivation to send out a daily newsletter bright and early every morning since 2016—in spite of initial reservations he would only have enough content for 30 days.
How Light crafts videos that make a point and pack a punch without going off on airy tangents that waste his viewers' valuable time, and what his policy is for dealing with comments these days in a way that doesn't waste his valuable time.
And so much more!
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Resources from this episode:
Bliss More: How to Succeed in Meditation Without Really Trying by Light Watkins
At the End of the Tunnel | Podcast
Light's Daily Dose of Inspiration | Newsletter
Light Watkins | Website
Light Watkins | Twitter
Light Watkins | Instagram
Fire Cider Tonic | Shire City Herbals
The Romantic Movement by Alain De Botton
How Romanticism Has Destroyed Love | Alain de Botton, Google Zeitgeist
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha
Christopher Ryan | Website
Groucho Marx Quotes About Marriage, Relationships, and Divorce | Fatherly
Stuck in an Unhappy Marriage? Science Says You Should Stay in It | Inc.com
Should Marriage Be a Contract with an Expiry Date? | The Modern Man
Mythbuster: The Grass Is Not Always Greener on the Other Side | Psychology Today
Montezuma's Revenge Meaning and Origin | The Phrase Finder
“The Only Zen You’ll Find on Mountain Tops Is the Zen You Bring Up with You.” -Robert Pirsig | Reddit
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values by Robert M. Pirsig
Subscribe | Seth Godin's Blog
Daily Thoughts | Jeff Kober
Listen Instead of Correcting Others: What We Gain and Give | Tiny Buddha
"I Only Write When Inspiration Strikes. Fortunately, It Strikes at Nine Every Morning." | Quote Investigator
20 Pieces of Writing Advice from William Faulkner | Literary Hub
'Your Camera Phone Is Our Weapon': Light Watkins on Why We Need to Talk About Racism | Form
For White People Who Are Asking "What Can You Do?" | Light Watkins, Instagram
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The Genius Life: Heal Your Mind, Strengthen Your Body, and Become Extraordinary by Max Lugavere
Genius Foods: Become Smarter, Happier, and More Productive While Protecting Your Brain for Life by Max Lugavere and Paul Grewal M.D.
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